The children are fighting. What to do?

Any mother of several children would want them to be friends to each other. Every baby fight drains mom's strength and hinders self-confidence. What should I do if children swear? How to overcome it?
The first thing to understand is that quarrels between children are normal. But if the children do not quarrel with each other, you need to be on your guard. Either they solve their problems in secret from their parents (a very rare phenomenon), or they simply do not communicate.
When children quarrel, you should try not to get into them to the last. You can't stop them from fighting for a place in the sun. This earns parental authority and the notion that kids have a personal space with their own problems that they should be able to solve on their own. If the parent is involved, then in no case should you take sides. But we need to understand the situation and understand who caused the scandal in the first place.
It's also worth giving up stereotypes like "You're the eldest, give in" or "She's a girl, don't hurt her." Children should be on equal terms.
Secondly, an equal amount of attention is given to an equal child. There is no need to arrange pets in the family, then there will be fewer quarrels. Every child has equal responsibilities and indulgences. This is important for the baby to see his special bond with his parents. This will not allow jealousy to get down to business.
Third, we need to teach children to communicate not only with each other, but also with children from the outside. Let them have friends from the street, from school or kindergarten. This way it will be much easier for them to find a common language with their relatives, because they will learn to build relationships from scratch using a live example. This should be especially influenced by the child's ability to communicate culturally, treat the interlocutor with respect and play jealously, sharing things.
Encourage children to communicate with each other. Let a healthy initiative to communicate awaken in each of them. But the main thing here is not to overdo it. After all, in addition to communication, each of them should have a personal space. If possible, you need to provide kids with their own room, or separate the space of one room into zones.
And finally, a tip for a very worried parent. If the quarrel of the kids causes you great worries and worries that do not calm down in your heart, then it is better to just leave the house for a while, walk to the store for a reconciling chocolate or cake. After all, children often arrange demonstration fights specifically to attract parental attention. And so: if there is no parent, there is no need for attention, and, therefore, there is no quarrel. Enhance your live betting experience with promo code 1xbet giving 5% cashback on live bets. Minimum odds: 1.50. Maximum daily cashback: $50. No wagering requirements. Applies to football, tennis, basketball and other live events. Works alongside other promotions. Must place at least 10 live bets weekly to qualify. Available to all verified users. Turn your live betting sessions into more profitable ones with this ongoing offer from 1xBet.